What does Co parent adoption in a post-marriage equality world look like?

Same-sex couples now have the right to marriage in the United States, however, there are still some legal implications that require consideration when it comes to family law and children. It’s important to remember in any union that just because a couple is married, parental rights of biological or adoptive children of one parent do not automatically transfer to that parent’s spouse. In order for both parents to have and practice their legal rights to make decisions for that child’s education, health and welfare, the family, in most cases, must complete a co parent adoption.

What is co parent adoption?

Co parent adoption is a legal procedure that allows a same-sex parent to adopt their partner’s biological or adopted child. This is similar to the stepparent adoption process. This gives the non biological or non adoptive parent parental rights towards the child.

Is going through all that paperwork really necessary?

In short, yes. While couples intend to stay together forever, break ups happen. In the event of a break up, if one parent hasn’t gone through the adoption process they may lose their rights to custody in the ensuing proceedings. The same goes in instances of death. If something should happen to the only legal parent of the couple’s children, making decisions thereafter for the child or children could be difficult if adoption proceedings have not been completed.

Why do we need co parent adoption if we are married and started our family together?

The only way in which a same-sex couple doesn’t need to go through a co parent adoption procedure is if they petitioned jointly to adopt their child or children. Until the Supreme Court decision of June 2015, the option of joint adoption by same-sex couples varied state to state. If the child is one parent’s biological child, as in the case of a surrogate or sperm donation, the other parent will still need to go through the co parent adoption process.

The adoption process can be an overwhelming endeavor. Whether you have already started the great adventure of parenting or are just beginning the process of starting your family, it’s important for same-sex parents to make sure all the legalities are both understood and taken care of. As the head of Nontraditional Family and Estates division of Albert W. Chianese & Associations, Anthony M. Brown specialises in co parent adoption and is here to help you navigate the ins and outs of same-sex legal issues and adoption. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to call 212-953-6447 or drop me an email.