New DOJ Brief Defending Constitutionality of DOMA in Gill v. OPM

Leonard Link

The U.S. Department of Justice, Civil Division, has filed its motion to dismiss in Gill v. Office of Personnel Management, Case No. 1:09-cv-10309 (JLT) (U.S.Dist.Ct., D. Mass.), the constitutional challenge to Section 3 of the federal Defense of Marriage Act filed in federal court in Boston last winter by Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD). The brief that DOJ filed on September 18 in support of the motion seems to come from a different universe from the brief they filed in June seeking dismissal of a DOMA challenge on the West Coast. Indeed, comparing the two is like comparing apples and oranges.

Last spring, DOJ first argued that the Smelt case should be dismissed for lack of standing, because the married couple who filed that case did not allege any specific harm they had suffered due to DOMA. DOJ won the motion to dismiss on that ground. But their brief went on to make the outrageous claim that the case should also be dismissed on the merits because DOMA was not discriminatory, but merely an attempt by Congress to be “neutral” in a contentious national debate over same-sex marriage. DOJ’s brief generated most of the public ire, however, in its response to the challenge to Section 2 of DOMA, relieving states of any obligation to recognize out-of-state same-sex marriages, and that section is not involved in the Gill case in Boston.

This time out, DOJ does make some narrowly-focused standing arguments concerning some of GLAD’s plaintiffs, but they are almost beside the point, because there is no dispute that several of the plaintiffs do have standing to raise a constitutional challenge to DOMA due to their exclusion from federal rights and benefits. All of the plaintiffs are either same-sex couples who married in Massachusetts or the surviving spouses of same-sex partners who they had married there, and in each case they had applied for some federal benefits or sought to exercise some federal rights unsuccessfully because of DOMA. DOJ argues that one of the plaintiffs’ cases must be dismissed because only the federal court of claims based in the District of Columbia has jurisdiction over the particular claim. As to another, they demonstrate convincingly that the particular plaintiff’s federal agency employer, the Postal Service, was not a participant in the particular benefits program about which she was complaining.

But turning to the merits, DOJ’s argument is quite straight-forward. After conceding that the Act discriminates and that the Administration is seeking its repeal, the brief nonetheless defends it as constitutional on minimalist grounds. Pointing out that at the time it was passed, no state authorized same-sex marriage and the enactment was provoked by concerns about a pending same-sex marriage lawsuit in Hawaii, DOJ argues that Congress could have rationally reacted to an unsettled situation regarding this new potential social phenomenon by preserving the status quo until the states had worked out a uniform approach to the issue. Making the argument that Congress could rationally believe it was sensible to have one standard for eligibility for federal rights and benefits throughout the nation, DOJ argues that in Section 3 Congress could have decided to preserve existing eligibility rules by adopting a uniform definition of marriage for the federal government. This way, eligibility for federal benefits would not differ from state to state.

DOJ argues that this proposed rational basis would be sufficient to satisfy the “rational basis” test of judicial review, under which statutes are presumed to be constitutional and the burden is on the challenger to prove that there is no non-discriminatory rationale for the statute. LGBT rights groups have been arguing in the courts that a more demanding level of judicial review should pertain to gay rights cases, due to the history of anti-gay discrimination, which illustrates that gays have frequently been the targets of blatantly discriminatory government policies. In cases involving other groups, the Supreme Court has indicated that such a history might require heightened scrutiny of equal protection claims.

The problem here is that the Supreme Court’s rather opaque opinion in Romer v. Evans, the 1996 ruling overturning Colorado’s anti-gay Amendment 2 which is the only equal protection ruling in favor of gay plaintiffs ever issued by the Supreme Court, has left the impression with lower courts that the “rational basis” test is the appropriate test for evaluating anti-gay legislation. The Romer decision was written against a context of national controversy about the constitutionality of the anti-gay military policy as well as same-sex marriage, and it is likely that the Supreme Court was looking for a way to decide that case without significantly affecting the constitutional status of these other issues, which may help to explain why Justice Anthony M. Kennedy’s opinion for the Court takes the approach that it did. It was possible for the Court to invalidate Amendment 2 by holding that it failed even the least stringent standard of judicial review, the rational basis test, without saying anything about whether some stricter standard of review might be appropriate for cases involving other anti-gay legislation. Arguably, if a discriminatory statute lacks even a rational basis, there is no need to undertake more stringent review and the Court can avoid deciding whether more stringent review might apply. Avoiding deciding constitutional issues that need not be decided is a central tenet of judicial restraint.

This was, of course, not a holding that anti-gay legislation does not merit a higher standard of review, but merely a ruling that Amendment 2 would fall to the lowest standard of review, because the Court saw the amendment as a product of pure animus against gay people, and had previously held in cases on other subjects that pure animus against a particular class of people is never a legitimate basis for discriminatory legislation.

Unfortunately, however, the 1st Circuit Court of Appeals, which would have jurisdiction over any appeal of GLAD’s case from the Massachusetts District Court, issued a ruling last year holding that in light of Romer v. Evans it concluded that the rational basis test was the appropriate standard for evaluating an equal protection challenge to the military “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. The court’s opinion in that case, Cook v. Gates, is itself somewhat elusive on the point, but seems to take the position that inasmuch as the Supreme Court did not adopt a higher standard of review in Romer and avoided discussing the equal protection issue in Lawrence, the 1st Circuit would follow the lead of other circuit courts in using the rational basis standard.

Thus, District Judge Joseph L. Touro, before whom this case is pending in Boston, is arguably bound by 1st Circuit precedent to use the rational basis test in deciding this motion to dismiss. The argument about national uniformity advanced by DOJ in support of its motion is just the kind of argument that usually wins a rational basis case, given the presumption of constitutionality. It is possible that GLAD can, in its responding brief, find support in the legislative history for the argument that animus played a significant role in the enactment of DOMA, or can persuade the court that Justice Sandra Day O’Connor’s discussion of equal protection in her concurring opinion in Lawrence shows that gay rights cases merit “more searching scrutiny” which requires a trial rather than disposition by motion to dismiss.

Of course, this case was planned to go to the appellate level in any event, so a dismissal by Judge Touro will merely hasten its progress by propelling it to the First Circuit more quickly. Touro could easily conclude that in light of First Circuit precedent, a trial can be avoided for now, and that the place to hold the purely legal argument about whether heightened scrutiny applies is at the court of appeals.

One point about the DOJ brief which is worthy of comment is its extensive textual footnote 10, which disavows any reliance on the argument that DOMA is justified under the reprehensible “responsible procreation and child-rearing” theory, a theory that has been at the heart of the same-sex marriage cases that have been decided adversely over the past few years. “Since the enactment of DOMA,” says the brief, “many leading medical, psychological, and social welfare organizations have issued policies opposing restrictions on lesbian and gay parenting upon concluding, based on numerous studies, that children raised by gay and lesbian parents are as likely to be well-adjusted as children raised by heterosexual parents.” The brief also notes in this footnote that “Justice Scalia acknowledged in his dissent [in Lawrence v. Texas] that encouraging procreation would not be a rational basis for limiting marriage to opposite-sex couples under the reasoning of the Lawrence majority opinion – which, of course, is the prevailing law – because ‘the sterile and the elderly are allowed to marry.’ Thus, the government does not believe that DOMA can be justified by interests in ‘responsible procreation’ or ‘child-rearing.’”

This footnote, which cites half a dozen professional sources for its factual assertions, is clearly the result of meetings that gay rights groups held with Civil Division attorneys after the uproar over last June’s DOMA brief in the Smelt case in California. Indeed, the DOJ reply brief in Smelt, filed shortly before the court granted the DOJ dismissal motion in that case on procedural grounds, already backed away from the worst arguments from the original brief, and disavowed these same arguments.

Is this new DOJ brief so “weak” in defending DOMA that it is giving up the game in hopes that the court will strike it down, saving the administration the effort to get it repealed by Congress? I don’t think so. In fact, in retreating from the more outrageous approach of the earlier brief, this brief actually lands on a facially plausible, non-discriminatory rationale for DOMA.

A handful of states allows same-sex marriage, while almost all of the rest ban it by constitutional amendment or statute, so it is plausible to assert that if Congress desired a national standard for eligibility for benefits, it could have believed that the way to preserve uniformity as of 1996 was to take the then-existing definition of marriage in every state and adopt it as the federal standard. I would argue, given the historical context, that this sudden, rather belated concern with uniformity in administering programs that in many cases were decades old was clearly sparked by a desire to exclude same-sex couples from eligibility just in case same-sex marriages became legal anywhere, and thus it embodied a discriminatory motive, but in rational basis cases it is unusual for the court to look behind the face of the statute at such arguments. (Under Justice O’Connor’s “more searching scrutiny” standard, I think such evidence clearly becomes relevant, but O’Connor’s statement comes from a concurring opinion, not the Court’s opinion, although it is itself a synthesis of prior decisions by the Court in cases involving other groups, so it was “nothing new.”)

Bottom line: I suspect Judge Touro will find it convenient based on the DOJ arguments to dismiss the lawsuit, GLAD will promptly appeal, the issue of appropriate level of review will be joined in the First Circuit, where the Cook v. Gates decision might also be invoked as binding in a three-judge panel but could be open to debate through en banc review. And, of course, ultimately there will be no final judgment in this case until the Supreme Court decides it, and there are too many imponderables about who may be sitting on the high court by then to make any prognostications on the merits now. Justice O’Connor is retired. Will any other member of the Court embrace the idea that at least “more searching scrutiny” than the ordinary rational basis test provides is appropriate in gay rights cases?

Defining family for purposes of family caregiving leave

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Thanks to Nan Hunter for alerting me to the proposed regulations implementing my favorite family leave policy: the one that allows federal government employees to use their sick leave to care for “any individual related by blood or affinity whose close association with the employee is the equivalent of a family relationship.” I’ve had numerous posts on this topic. I love the current policy because it allows employees to define their own family members. Whenever advocates for marriage equality cite the unfairness of preventing one partner from caring for another who is ill, I always respond by arguing that the solution to that problem isn’t marriage — it’s an employee leave policy like the federal government’s! Such a policy encompasses same-sex couples but also ensures that unpartnered LGBT individuals, who may be estranged from or live far from their families of origin, can receive care from the people they consider members of their families of choice.

The proposed new regulations make clear that “domestic partners” are included. Appropriately, the definition of domestic partners requires commitment and some shared responsibility for each other’s “common welfare and financial obligations,” but it does not require living together. It also encompasses different sex couples. No couple must marry, or register with the state as domestic partners, or enter a civil union, to qualify for the leave. The proposed regs also make explicit that the child of a domestic partner is in the category of children one may use sick leave to care for, but, again, such children were always covered because the standard has always included (and continues to) all children to whom the employee stands “in loco parentis” (in other words, functions as a parent).

Most importantly for my analysis, the broad definition of family remains. The regulations read:

“We are not re-defining the phrase ‘‘[a]ny individual related by blood or affinity’’ whose close association with the employee is the equivalent of a family relationship. We have broadly interpreted the phrase in the past to include such relationships as grandparent and grandchild, brother and sister-in-law, fiance´(e), cousin, aunt and uncle, other relatives outside definitions (1)–(4) in current 5 CFR 630.201 and 630.902, and close friend, to the extent that the connection between the employee and the individual was significant enough to be regarded as having the closeness of a family relationship even though the individuals might not be related by blood or formally in law.”

The late Senator Ted Kennedy was the lead sponsor of the “Healthy Families Act,” proposed legislation that would require private employers to provide paid sick leave to their employees. It includes the same definition of whom a worker must be allowed to use their leave to care for as that contained in the standard for federal employees. There is also a movement to get states to pass such laws. Every paid sick leave bill has a definition of the family members the employees may use their leave to care for. I have long argued for the definition in the Healthy Families Act, and I continue to do so.

States with super-DOMAs (those prohibiting recognition of all unmarried couples as well as same-sex marriages) are probably unable to pass a paid sick leave law that includes “domestic partners.” But such states can definitely use the broader definition of family. That definition does not single out couples for protection; it simply says that employees must be able to use their sick leave to care for the people closest to them whom they consider members of their family. It’s been working for the federal government for 15 years. It respects diverse family relationships. It helps employees balance their work and caregiving responsibilities. And from a LGBT rights perspective it respects all our close relationships, not just those that mirror heterosexual marriage.

I have no problem with changes that specify that same- and different-sex couples are included regardless of marital status. I’m just thrilled they made it crystal clear that the broader definition of family remains. And I’d like to see LGBT rights groups advocate that broader definition in federal and state legislation.

Official: No Ukrainian adoption for Elton John


(Kiev, Ukraine) Elton John will not be able to adopt a 14-month-old Ukrainian child because the pop star is too old and isn’t traditionally married, Ukraine’s minister for family affairs said Monday.

The pop signer toured a hospital for HIV-infected children in eastern Ukraine on Saturday as part of a charity project and said that he and his male partner David Furnish wanted to adopt an HIV-infected boy named Lev.

But the country’s Family, Youth and Sports Minister Yuriy Pavlenko told The Associated Press that adoptive parents must be married and Ukraine does not recognize homosexual unions as marriage.

John and Furnish, his longtime partner, tied the knot in 2005 in one of the first legalized civil unions in the United Kingdom.

Pavlenko also said John was too old. The singer is 62 and Ukrainian law requires a parent to be no more than 45 years older than an adopted child.

“Foreign citizens who are single have no right to adopt children … and the age difference between the adopter and the child cannot be more than 45 years,” Pavlenko said. “The law is the same for everybody: for a president, for a minister, for Elton John.”

John gave Lev a big kiss at the orphanage in Makiyivka.

“I don’t know how we do that, but he has stolen my heart. And he has stolen David’s heart and it would be wonderful if we can have a home,” John said.

Pavlenko said Ukraine was grateful for the singer’s charity work and expressed hope that his desire to adopt Lev would spur the domestic adoption of more children with health problems, which is still rare in Ukraine.

Lawmakers in Uruguay Vote to Allow Gay Couples to Adopt

September 10, 2009, New York Times

MONTEVIDEO, Uruguay (Reuters) — Lawmakers voted Wednesday to extend adoption rights to gay couples in Uruguay, the latest measure to relax laws on homosexuality that has drawn criticism from church leaders in the country, which is predominantly Roman Catholic.

Members of Congress said the law made Uruguay the first Latin American country to permit gay couples to adopt. The measure, which will now go to President Tabaré Vázquez for his signature, will also for the first time allow unmarried couples to adopt.

“This law is a significant step toward recognizing the rights of homosexual couples,” Diego Sempol, a member of the gay rights group, Black Sheep, told Reuters Television earlier this week.

Gay people are allowed to adopt under Uruguayan law, but only as individuals rather than jointly as a couple. Gay marriage remains illegal.

The Parliament in Uruguay, a small South American nation with a secular state structure, passed a law in late 2007 to permit gay couples to have civil unions, which grant similar rights as marriage.

Earlier this year the center-left government also lifted a ban on gay people serving in the armed forces.

Church leaders criticized the new adoption law, and the center-right National Party voted against it.

“The family is the bedrock of society and this measure weakens it,” said Senator Francisco Gallinal of the National Party. “For us, allowing children to be adopted by same-sex couples is conditioning the child’s free will.”

Latin America is home to about half of the world’s Roman Catholics, and government policies in most countries on gay rights and other divisive issues like abortion tend to reflect the church’s conservative stance.

Texas Appeals Court Issues Adverse Ruling on Co-Parent’s Suit Seeking Conservatorship or Adoption

Arthur Leonard Lesbian/Gay Lawnotes – 9.09

The Court of Appeals of Texas in Dallas issued a
ruling Aug. 11 affirming a decision by a trial
court in Dallas County rejecting an attempt by a
lesbian co-parent to be appointed conservator
or to adopt the child born to her former partner
through donor insemination. In the Interest of
M.K.S.-V., A Child, 2009 WL 2437076. The
court rejected the plaintiff’s claim that her extensive
visitation with the child sufficed to create
standing for her to seek to be appointed a
conservator, and found that the birth mother’s
adamant refusal to consent was a bar to adoption.
The parties met in the fall of 1997, began living
together in 1998, and decided to have a
child together. T.S. was inseminated in 2003,
and gave birth to M.K.S. in May 2004. T.S. and
K.V. “co-parented” until their relationship
broke up in August 2005, when T.S. moved out
with M.K.S. However, conceding the importance
ot “continuity” for M.K.S., T.S. agreed to
a liberal visitation schedule for K.V., who continued
to play an active role with the child.
However, T.S. was upset when K.V. accessed
the child’s school records without consulting
T.S., and cut off her visitation, transfering the
child to a different school without consulting
K.V. K.V. then filed suit, seeking to be appointed
conservator or to adopt the child in a
second-parent adoption proceeding.
T.S. challenged K.V.’s standing to be appointed
a conservator, and refused to consent to
the adoption. K.V. was relying on statutory provisions
that allowed an unrelated adult who had
a substantial parental relationship to seek appointment
as a conservator, but the court found
that the arrangement she had with T.S. did not
qualify under Texas precedents to confer that
status in this case. Furthermore, the court found
that T.S.’s refusal to consent was an absolute
bar to adoption by K.V. K.V. also made estoppel
arguments, contending that she had an agreement
with T.S. concerning continued contact
with the child, but the court was unwilling to
enforce the agreement, either through a breach
of contract or estoppel theory.
K.V. is represented by Michelle May O’Neil,
and T.S. by Paul Brumley. A.S.L.
Tax Court Rejects Joint Filing Status for Same-Sex
Couple
The United States Tax Court ruled on July 13
that millionaire gay activist Charles Merrill
could not benefit from joint tax filing status for
the tax years 2004 and 2005 because he was
not married to his long-term same-sex partner,
Kevin Boyle, during those tax years. Merrill v.
Commissioner of Internal Revenue, T.C. Memo.
2009–166, 2009 WL 2015106.
According to the opinion for the court by
Judge Diane L. Kroupa, Merrill had previously
been married to Johnson & Johnson heiress
Evangeline Johnson Merrill, then began a relationship
with Boyle after Evangeline’s death.
Merrill and Boyle have been partners for more
than 18 years, and married in California in
2008.
Merrill never filed tax returns for 2004 and
2005. When the IRS contacted him about the
missing returns, he responded that he had not
filed as a protest because he should be able to
file jointly with his partner but it was not allowed
by the IRS. The tax agency prepared
forms based on whatever information it had
about Merrill’s finances and assessed him deficiencies
for the years in question. Merrill took
the issue to the Tax Court, claiming that in light
of his long-term relationship with Boyle, the denial
of joint filing status discriminates against
same-sex couples in violation of the constitution.
The Tax Court generally does not pass on
constitutional questions. In this case, Judge
Kroupa pointed out, the Code provides that in
order to benefit from joint filing status, one
must at least file a return claiming such status,
which Merrill had never done, thus his appeal
must be dismissed. “We need not address his
constitutional claims,” she wrote, but then
dropped a footnote citing half a dozen prior rulings
rejecting constitutional claims brought to
challenge the filing status provisions. Of
course, a perfectly plausible argument could be
made that it is inequitable to treat long-term
same-sex couples differently from married couples
under tax law, but turning that into a legal
claim is tricky since the two don’t have the same
legal status. However, now that Merrill and
Boyle are married, one suspects that they could
raise a constitutional claim against any refusal
to accept a joint return for their 2008 taxes,
should they attempt to file one. A.S.L.

Oregon Appellate Court Adopts Progressive Interpretation of Donor Insemination Statute in Custody Dispute Between Lesbian Former Partners

Arthur Leonard Lesbian/Gay LawNotes 9.09

A lesbian who had separated from her partner
challenged the constitutionality of two Oregon
statutes: one that creates a presumption that a
husband is the father of a child born to his wife,
so long as the spouses are not separated; and
another that gives a husband parental rights
over a child born as a result of his wife’s artificial
insemination, so long at the husband consented
to the insemination. An Oregon appellate
court deemed the former statute
constitutional and inapplicable to lesbian couples,
but held the latter statute unconstitutional
unless it extends to give parental rights to a
same-sex domestic partner of an artificially inseminated
woman. Thus, the statute was upheld,
but judicially amended to apply under
circumstances such as those presented here.
Shineovich and Kemp, 230 Or. App. 670, 2009
WL 2032113 (Or. App. July 15, 2009).
The appeal by the woman cut off from her
partner’s children was argued by Mark Johnson
of Johnson and Lechman-Su of Portland, Oregon,
with amicus briefs from the American Civil
Liberties Union, ACLU Foundation of Oregon,
Inc., and Basic Rights Oregon. Murphy
McGrew of Lake Oswego, Oregon, represented
the birth mother.
Sondra Lee Shineovich and Sarah Elizabeth
Kemp had a 10–year relationship during which
Kemp was artificially inseminated and bore two
children. Shineovich alleges that she consented
to the insemination. Around the time of
the birth of their first child, the couple was married
in Multnomah County, but the marriage
was later declared void when the courts determined
that the county did not have authority to
issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples.
After the couple’s separation, Shineovich
sued for a declaration of parental rights. The
lower court dismissed her suit for failure to state
a claim, and only cursorily discussed the constitutionality
of the statutes. Shineovich appealed,
contending that laws that extend parental
rights to husbands must be read to extend
such rights to same-sex partners of women who
give birth during their partnership.
One statute challenged by Shineovich, Or.
Rev. Stat. Section 109.070(1), created a presumption
that a husband was the parent of his
wife’s child, but only if he was not impotent or
sterile at the time of the conception. (The provision
regarding impotency or sterility was removed
from the statute in 2007, after the events
precipitating this action.) The court held that
because this statute relates only to biological
paternity, and specifically applies only to people
capable of fertilizing a woman’s egg, it could
not, even if it were phrased in gender-neutral
terminology, grant parental rights to a woman; it
is not possible for a woman to fertilize the egg of
another woman. Thus, the lesbian partner of a
birth mother is in the same position, under this
statute, as an impotent or sterile man. Since the
presumption equally excludes any man or
woman incapable of fertilizing an egg, the statute
is not unconstitutionally discriminatory, according
to the court.
The second statute challenged by Shineovich
is quite different. Under Or. Rev. Stat.
Section 109.243, the relationship, rights and
obligation between a child born as a result of artificial
insemination and the mother’s husband
is viewed as the same as if the child had been
naturally and legitimately conceived by the
mother and the mother’s husband, so long as
the husband consented to the performance of
artificial insemination. Thus, the statute gives a
status to “husbands” that is not available to
other similarly situated persons. Under Oregon
law, therefore, a woman partnered with another
woman cannot be a “husband,” or any other
type of spouse, thus, the statute privileges men
and discriminates against women. Further, homosexuals
are a suspect class under Oregon jurisprudence,
and laws that disfavor a suspect
class are only justifiable if there is a genuine
difference between that class and other persons
granted some sort of privilege or immunity.
Thus, the court found the latter statute to contravene
the equal protection clause of Oregon’s
constitution.
The appeals court also considered the section
of the Oregon Constitution that prohibits
legal recognition of same-sex marriage . Unlike
such provisions in other states’ constitutions,
Oregon’s constitution does not prevent
marital-type benefits from being extended to
same-sex partners. (The court compared the
provisions in Georgia, Ohio, and Utah.) Definitions
of marriage from both legal and non-legal
sources do not indicate that “marriage,” in and
of itself, encompasses any particular benefits.
Thus, it is not unconstitutional under the marriage
amendment to extend statutory privileges
to same-sex partners on the basis of unequal
treatment of women or homosexuals. Such an
extension does not impinge on prerogatives integral
to the concept of “marriage.”
Under the rules of statutory interpretation
recognized in Oregon, if a statute is defective
because of under-inclusion, there exist two remedial
alternatives: a court may either (1) declare
the statute a nullity and order that its
benefits not extend to the class that the legislature
intended to benefit, or (2) extend the coverage
of the statute to include those who are aggrieved
by exclusion. In order to decide which
path to choose, the court sought to determine
which course would further the legislative objective.
The objective of the statute was, according
to the court, to protect children conceived
by artificial insemination from being
denied the right to support by the mother’s husband
or to inherit from the husband. Invalidating
the statute would undermine that purpose,
and might nullify the legal parent-child relationship
of any such child and the mother’s
husband.
“On the other hand,” said the court, “extending
the statute’s coverage to include the children
of mothers in same-sex relationships advances
the legislative objective by providing
the same protection for a greater number of
children.” Thus, “the appropriate remedy is to
extend the statute so that it applies when the
same-sex partner of the biological mother consented
to the artificial insemination.”
Under the first statute, the appellate court ordered
the trial court to enter a judgment declaring
that Shineovich is not the legal parent of
Kemp’s children, because she is not biologically
capable of being the genetic parent of
Kemp’s children.
Under the second statute, however, the trial
court, on remand, must treat Shineovich the
same as it would treat a mother’s husband.
Note, however, that the latter statute includes
an element of consent. Thus,Kemp alleged that
Shineovich could not prove that she “con-
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sented” to the artificial insemination because
no writing evidenced such consent. The court
held that writing is not essential to show consent,
and the lack of a writing does not foreclose
a claim. On the other hand, on remand, Shineovich
must prove that she in fact consented to
the insemination. Whether she consented is a
factual issue appropriate for determination by
the trier of fact. (Note: The appeals court also rejected
an attempt to dismiss this suit on jurisdictional
grounds, namely, that the petitioner must
name the state as a party whenever a state statute’s
constitutionality is challenged in an action
for declaratory relief.) Alan J. Jacob

North Carolina upholds second-parent adoption!

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Nancy Pollikof, Beyond (Striaght and Gay) Marriage

The South is the region with the worst laws in the country for gay and lesbian parents. Well today add North Carolina to the list of states that approve second-parent adoption.

Today’s decision from the North Carolina Court of Appeals came in the case of Boseman v. Jarrell. Pretty straightforward facts: Julia Boseman and Melissa Jarrell had been together four years when, in 2002, Melissa gave birth to a child, conceived through donor insemination and planned for by both of them. The child called Melissa “Mommy” and Julia “Mom.” The couple filed for a second-parent adoption, which was granted in 2005. As is common given state adoption statutes, the couple asked the court to waive the statutory provision that an adoption terminates the biological mother’s parental rights. The court ruled that it had the power to do that, and the adoption decree specifically reads that it does not terminate Melissa’s parental rights.

So far so good.

But the next year the couple split up, Melissa limited Julia’s time with the child, and, in 2007, Julia filed an action for joint custody. Melissa then tried to get the court (in a different county from the court that granted the adoption) to rule that the adoption decree was void. The opinion released today holds that the adoption decree was not void. If it was an error to grant an adoption without severing Melissa’s parental rights, that had to be raised on an appeal from the adoption decree; it could not be raised in a subsequent proceeding.

There’s lots of good language in the opinion about why the adoption was a good thing, but the court’s failure to rule definitively that a court can waive the provision terminating a biological parent’s rights does leave the door open for some trial court judge in the state to rule that the law does not permit such waiver. What is clear, however, is that if a trial judge DOES grant a second-parent adoption, that adoption is valid and cannot later be challenged by anyone.

The court also makes clear that it would have ruled the same way had the parties been an unmarried different-sex couple. “While [the adoption code] does not specifically address same-sex adoptions,” the court wrote, “these statutes do make clear that a wide range of adoptions are contemplated and permitted, so long as they protect the minor’s ‘needs, interests, and rights.'”

The North Carolina Association of Women Attorneys, the National Association of Social Workers, the North Carolina Chapter of the National Association of Social Workers, and the North Carolina Foster and Adoptive Parents Association filed a friend of the court brief in support of upholding the adoption.

Uruguay becoming first Latin American country to legalize gay adoption

August 28, 12:04 PMSouth America Policy ExaminerSylvia Longmire

In yet another bold move by Uruguay’s socialist government, lawmakers voted yesterday to allow adoptions by gay and lesbian couples. The measure, which was approved 40-13, still needs to pass through the senate, a move considered a formality since it was already approved there on a first reading.

The senate was due to vote on the measure before September 15, the end of a legislative period that was brought forward ahead of presidential elections in October.

This is the third such legal action taken by the Uruguayan government in the last two years to extend more rights to homosexuals. In December 2007, the Congress legalized civil unions for gay and lesbian couples. In May of this year, Tabare Vazquez, the first leftist president in Uruguayan history, opened access for homosexuals to military schools.

As expected, the Roman Catholic Church is less than excited about these legal actions.

According to Agence France Presse, The archbishop of Montevideo, Nicolas Cotugno, said before the vote that it would be a “serious error to accept the adoption of children by homosexual couples. It’s not about religion, philosophy or sociology. It’s something which is mainly about the respect of human nature itself.”

Uruguay is usually a country whose actions manage to stay out of the headlines, probably because Vazquez isn’t nearly as vocal as his leftist contemporaries in Latin America. One might think that other socialist leaders might share this liberal attitude towards gay rights, but it’s not clear how presidents like Venezuela’s Hugo Chávez, Ecuador’s Rafael Correa, and Bolivia’s Evo Morales feel about gay rights.

The biggest cultural issue standing in the way of any progression in the gay rights movement in Latin America is machismo, and an inherent aversion to homosexuality in the Hispanic culture. However, The Economist reports that homosexuality is accepted more widely than it used to be:

“Latin Americans are surprisingly tolerant of homosexuality—within limits. Though they may face taunts and violence, men in particular can sometimes lead openly, even flamboyantly, gay lives as long as they conform to certain stereotypes (such as working as hairdressers). Those who prefer to be discreet usually benefit from Catholic society’s widespread ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ tolerance of private foibles. It is when they start challenging norms and agitating for legal rights that the trouble typically starts.”

Civil unions have been legalized in some states in Mexico, Argentina, and Brazil, but probably no one can say that it’s a widespread movement with broad acceptance. Machismo still dominates in Latin America, which will make any progress in gay rights slower than in other regions.

Movement toward adoption by gay couples in Louisiana has momentum but little enthusiasm

There’s a movement in Louisiana that may help gay couples adopt children. The Louisiana Commission on Marriage and Family has been approached about adoption equality for gay couples.

The AP reports:

The idea, made in a presentation Thursday by the Forum for Equality Louisiana, was greeted with little enthusiasm from commission members in a state that has a constitutional ban on gay marriage.

Louisiana currently allows married couples or a single person to adopt a child. If a single person adopts a child and is in a relationship – whether heterosexual or homosexual – the partner in that relationship has no legal parental rights to the child.

Kenny Tucker, chairman of Forum for Equality Louisiana, says the group would like to see unmarried couples able to adopt children. Rep. Frank Hoffmann, a member of the marriage and family commission, says he doubts that idea would gain traction with state lawmakers.

PTSD and Preemies – For Parents on NICU, Trauma May Last

August 25, 2009 – New York Times

 

 

Kim Roscoe’s son, Jaxon, was born three months early, weighing two and a half pounds. But for nine days he did exceedingly well in the neonatal intensive care unit, and Ms. Roscoe felt little different from the other new mothers.

Her nightmare started on Day 10.

“I had left him late the night before, in my arms, tiny but perfect,” said Ms. Roscoe, now 30, of Monterey, Calif. But when she returned to the NICU the next day, Jaxon was in respiratory and kidney failure, and his body had swollen beyond recognition.

“He was hooked up to ventilators, his skin was turning black, the alarms kept dinging over and over,” Ms. Roscoe recalled.

Jaxon is 16 months old now, and home with his family. But he was in the NICU for 186 days, and his days and weeks were punctuated by near-death episodes.

During the six-month ordeal, Ms. Roscoe had constant nightmares. She slept with her shoes on, expecting a call from the hospital at any moment. She became angry at the world, and so jumpy she thought a supermarket scanner was one of Jaxon’s monitors going off. Her husband, Scott, immersed himself in projects, took care of their daughter, Logan, now 6, and held things together emotionally.

About three months after her son’s birth, Ms. Roscoe asked to see a psychiatrist. She was given a diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder, or P.T.S.D. — a mental illness more often associated with surviving war, car accidents and assaults, but now being recognized in parents of premature infants in prolonged intensive care.

A new study from Stanford University School of Medicine, published in the journal Psychosomatics, followed 18 such parents, both men and women. After four months, three had diagnoses of P.T.S.D. and seven were considered at high risk for the disorder.

In another study, researchers from Duke University interviewed parents six months after their baby’s due date and scored them on three post-traumatic stress symptoms: avoidance, hyperarousal, and flashbacks or nightmares. Of the 30 parents, 29 had two or three of the symptoms, and 16 had all three.

“The NICU was very much like a war zone, with the alarms, the noises, and death and sickness,” Ms. Roscoe said. “You don’t know who’s going to die and who will go home healthy.”

Experts say parents of NICU infants experience multiple traumas, beginning with the early delivery, which is often unexpected.

“The second trauma is seeing their own infant having traumatic medical procedures and life-threatening events, and also witnessing other infants going through similar experiences,” said the author of the Stanford study, Dr. Richard J. Shaw, an associate professor of child psychiatry at Stanford and the Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital.

“And third, they often are given serial bad news,” he continued. “The bad news keeps coming. It’s different from a car accident or an assault or rape, where you get a single trauma and it’s over and you have to deal with it. With a preemie, every time you see your baby the experience comes up again.”

Abby Schrader and her partner, Sharon Eble, delivered twins at 23 weeks. Both girls, born at 1 pound 5 ounces each, were having continuous near-death events. “We were constantly being asked whether we wanted to remove support,” said Ms. Schrader, of Philadelphia.

Eighteen days after the girls’ birth, the couple did withdraw support from one baby, whose health had badly deteriorated. The surviving twin, Hallie, now 3, was in the NICU for 121 days and continued to have medical problems once home. “From the moment of their birth, and still to this day, we feel like we’re triaging everything and just hanging on,” Ms. Schrader said.

The Stanford study found that although none of the fathers experienced acute stress symptoms while their child was in the NICU, they actually had higher rates of post-traumatic stress than the mothers when they were followed up later. “At four months, 33 percent of fathers and 9 percent of mothers had P.T.S.D.,” Dr. Shaw said.

It may be that cultural roles compel the men to keep a brave front during the trauma to support their partners, Dr. Shaw said, adding, “But three months later, when the mothers have recovered, that’s when the fathers are allowed to fall apart.”

The post-traumatic stress may take the form of nightmares or flashbacks. Sufferers may feel panic every time a beeper goes off in the intensive care unit, or they may avoid the trauma by not visiting the unit or by emotionally distancing themselves from their child. Over time, they may develop depression, anxiety, insomnia, numbness, anger and aggression. These symptoms, of course, can impair their abilities as parents.

Several studies have shown that the risk of P.T.S.D. was not related to how tiny or sick the child was or how long the stay in the NICU. “It had to do with the parents’ coping style,” Dr. Shaw said. “There were some who were more resilient and others more vulnerable.”

In one study of rural African-Americans, those who were at greater risk of post-traumatic stress reported more problems in their daily lives, like financial trouble or lack of a partner, said the study’s author, Diane Holditch-Davis, a professor at Duke University School of Nursing. One of the biggest problems for these parents is coping after they finally leave the NICU.

“It may be several months later when they’re ready to process what they experienced, but at that point, family and friends don’t want to talk about it anymore,” Dr. Holditch-Davis said.

Ms. Schrader, in Philadelphia, felt a similar isolation in dealing with her surviving daughter’s health problems. “We got the sense that people just didn’t want to hear about it anymore,” she said.

Experts say parents who are at risk for post-traumatic stress should be identified ahead of time and given help to prepare them for dealing with the initial trauma. But many hospitals are focused on saving the infants, not the emotional crises of the parents.

“Some hospitals have really great programs, and in some, it’s really very sad,” said Liza Cooper, director of the March of Dimes NICU Family Support program, which offers psychological support to parents in 74 hospitals nationwide. Even though most units have social workers, she went on, “there’s really no one there to support the parents, provide group activities or education.”

Vicki Forman did not realize that she was suffering from post-traumatic stress until about four years after the premature birth of her twins, when she began researching her book “This Lovely Life” (Mariner Books, 2009), about her experience in the NICU and raising her surviving son with multiple disabilities.

“What the parent is going through is more or less dismissed because what you’re contending with are the health issues of your child,” she said. “Occasionally a social worker will say, ‘Are you taking care of yourself?’ but never, ‘This is a traumatic experience you endured and you need to pay attention to these symptoms.’ ”

Some hospitals pair parents of premature babies in intensive care with those who have been through the experience. One study found that 16 weeks after childbirth, mothers who were matched with NICU veterans had less anxiety and depression, and felt they had more social support, than mothers in a control group.

In addition to the family support program, the March of Dimes runs an online support community called shareyourstory.org. “The most critical piece is to help prepare someone so they know what to expect and don’t fall into a world of frightening unknowns,” said Ms. Cooper, from the March of Dimes.

Untreated P.T.S.D. can have lingering effects on the child. During the NICU stay, for instance, traumatized parents may find it hard to hold or even look at their child, and that can profoundly affect the baby’s attachment to the mother. Later, mothers might experience “vulnerable child syndrome,” in which they become so anxious that a minor medical event sends them into a panic. Normal, everyday risks can seem life-threatening; children can learn to gain unhealthy attention from physical complaints.

In her book, Ms. Forman wrote: “From the moment my twins were born, I saw potential for tragedy wherever I turned. It would be years before I stopped thinking that way.”

In Monterey, Kim Roscoe is coping with a similar anxiety now, 16 months after Jaxon’s birth. “I still freak out if he has a runny nose,” she said. “And when he gets a fever, I’m back in the NICU.”