Surrogacy and Medi-Cal Insurance

This past week I received a telephone call from a surrogate who wanted to know if it was legal for her to use her insurance for her surrogacy. She and the Intended Parent were using a contract that he found on the Internet. The surrogate seemed to think this was okay because he is attending law school so he is an attorney. I explained to her that until he passed the Bar and obtains his license, he is not an attorney. “Oh” and then “well” was her response.

She then told me that her husband is in construction so they are on Medi-Cal (the state of California’s low-income insurance plan) so they are going to have two contracts. One that states that the Surrogate is not receiving a fee, which they will send to Medi-Cal as proof that she is doing the surrogacy for no fee and then an amendment that states the fees she will be receiving. She then asked “Is that legal?”

“No. That is insurance fraud and if the insurance company that administers your plan finds out you and your family will lose your insurance, at the very least.” I then told her to hire an attorney to protect herself and that if she wants to hire me I would charge more than my going rate because a contract found off the Internet is going to require a lot of work. I also told her to not use her Medi-Cal insurance and that the Intended Parent needs to purchase her insurance to cover the surrogate pregnancy. Frankly, I think she somehow expected me to say something different.

Insurance companies are very, very serious about insurance fraud, especially regarding surrogacy. Medi-Cal insurance does not usually have a surrogacy exclusion so as long as the surrogacy is truly altruistic and there is no compensation paid to the surrogate and the insurance does not exclude a surrogate pregnancy, it is appropriate to use it. But, absolutely not in this surrogate’s case. I wish her the best of luck as I’m afraid she’s going to need it.

Circle Surrogacy offers seminars in London and Stockholm for gay couples and singles

London and Stockholm seminars are offered in May about USA surrogacy options for gay couples and singles

Circle Surrogacy, one of the oldest and most experienced surrogacy agencies in the USA, is offering private consultations and informational seminars in London and Stockholm this month. The London seminar will be held at 2:30pm on May 16, and it is co-sponsored by Connecticut Fertility Associates. The seminar will feature a presentation by a lesbian surrogate mom from the USA who recently delivered a baby for a London couple, along with expert legal and medical advice, practical tips and contacts for gay and straight couples and singles. A similar seminar will be held in Stockholm on May 20, 6-8pm. Additional seminars and consultations are planned this year in Tel Aviv (June 12, in conjunction with Gay Pride), Montreal, New York, Atlanta and Madrid.

Circle Surrogacy is returning to London and Stockholm after holding six successful informational seminars in Europe and Israel over the last year. This time it will be presenting the innovative surrogacy programs it recently launched, such as “Guaranteed Baby” and more affordable surrogacy options with the use of an Egg Bank and Egg Sharing.

Circle Surrogacy has already helped bring to the world dozens of UK and Swedish babies, with just as many on the way. Many of these families will be attending reunion parties in London (also May 16) and Stockholm (May 19). The agency’s philosophy is to facilitate a circle of families who help create new families. The surrogate mothers who get accepted to Circle’s program are highly motivated to help prospective parents have children, and the agency assures that their spouses are also completely aboard with this endeavor. Circle is unique in its practice of also screening intended parents and making sure that they are willing to treat the egg donors (who sometimes are friends or family members) and surrogate mothers with the full respect and appreciation they deserve. Most of the people working at Circle are either parents through surrogacy, or former surrogates or egg donors themselves.

Introducing the Family Leave Insurance Act 2009

Source: Proud Parenting

The Family Leave Insurance Act of 2009 [H.R. 1723], introduced on March 25 by four House Democrats, would amend the Family and Medical Leave Act to provide up to 12 weeks of paid leave benefits to workers who need to care for an ill family member or new child, or to treat their own illness. Along with its paid leave provisions, which CCH says drew the most attention, H.R. 1723 also would amend the Act to grant FMLA leave to employees who need to care for an ill domestic partner or the child of a domestic partner – thereby affording the protections of the FMLA to GLBT employees.

Currently, the FMLA does not require employers to provide leave to care for a same-sex partner or spouse, because federal law does not recognize same-sex relationships. In addition, it is unclear whether, in every instance, the FMLA would cover the child of a same-sex partner or spouse if the employee is not the child’s legal parent. Employers are not mandated by the FMLA to provide an employee leave for the birth and care of a child to which an employee is not a legal parent unless a local court determines it to be so.

Parents who hire foreign surrogates ‘risk losing children’

London Evening Standard

Couples who hire foreign surrogate mothers risk their children being taken from them, a legal expert said today.

Natalie Gamble, a fertility law specialist, warned that hundreds of parents who use women in India to have a child are facing a legal timebomb. Many are failing to register as their baby’s legal parents so effectively have no rights, which could be a particular issue if they divorce.

Ms Gamble, founder of Britain’s first fertility law firm, Gamble and Ghevaert, told the Standard: “There’s so little information so couples don’t realise what they’re getting into. They’re slipping through the net and don’t realise they’re not the legal parents.

“You’re basically strangers looking after a child and it’s potentially a nightmare. This has all sorts of implications with health visitors, schools or if the parents divorce. This is a timebomb.”

Couples using surrogates have six months after their child’s birth to register as the legal parents when they bring the baby back to Britain. They must go to court and effectively adopt the child.

But many are ignorant of this process, called a parental order, which means schools and social services can

challenge their position as the child’s legal guardians.

Senior legal figures, including High Court judge Mr Justice McFarlane, are trying to get the law on surrogacy reviewed but Ms Gamble said that at the moment couples have no protection unless they register.

Her firm has been inundated with calls from couples worried about the pitfalls of foreign surrogacy. She deals with gay men conceiving with the help of surrogate mothers in the US and India as well as lesbian couples and single women conceiving with friends.

Last year 31-year-old Ms Gamble, herself the mother of two children born using a sperm donor, was involved in a landmark case when a couple using a Ukrainian surrogate went to the High Court to prove their parental rights. She also dealt with the case of London fireman Andy Bathie, who was targeted by the Child Support Agency for child maintenance payments after donating sperm to a lesbian couple.

Ms Gamble said: “We have seen a liberalisation of more unusual forms of fertility treatment in the UK in the past few years, such as donor insemination for lesbian couples and single women, surrogacy, embryo testing and gay parenting.

“These create complex legal situations which increasing numbers of people need expert help with.” Paying surrogates for carrying a child is illegal in Britain, but Ms Gamble said she would back a review into surrogacy laws.

She said: “Commercialised reproduction is a very sensitive issue. We’ve taken the moral high ground in this country but we need to live in the real world whatever the ethical issues.

“The reality is that people are going to go abroad. The priority is about protecting the rights of children.”

Update to Providing Insurance For Your Surrogate

Now I read that Beitler Insurance, our insurance company, is being sued by New Life Agency for a surrogate’s maternity bills.   Go to http://www.reuters.com/article/pressRelease/idUS106349+19-May-2009+PRN20090519

–  Anthony

Providing Insurance for your Carrier

OK-  When a surrogacy agency tells you that your carrier is uninsured, but that it is not a problem, think twice.  We have a great carrier, and agency, but the insurance provider, Beitler Insurance has allowed medical bills to be sent directly to the surrogate, some even going into collection.  This is unacceptable.  We already funded the medical trust and don’t know why this could continue for 6 weeks.  It is a big problem now so make sure that your surrogate has her own insurance or that you have a good insurance provider.

Anthony & Gary

Surrogacy agencies operate with little regulation

By MELODY McDONALD

Star-Telegram.com, Sunday May 3, 2009

Five years ago, Stephanie Scott agreed to be a surrogate mother for an infertile couple on the East Coast.It was an awful experience.

The California surrogate agency brokering the deal mishandled the intended parents’ money, and Scott went months without compensation. When checks did come, sometimes they bounced. Medical bills went unpaid.

Scott, who lives in Dallas, said she rarely heard from the agency — or the parents whose child she was carrying.

“It was one thing after another,” she said. “I was pregnant with my surro daughter, and I couldn’t get ahold of the agency owner. I swear she was screening my calls. I called around to a couple of other agencies to see what I could do and, of course, I could do nothing.”

Scott said she was shocked to learn that neither the state nor federal government regulates surrogate agencies. They do not have to be licensed, bonded or insured, and there are no rules governing how they handle money, screen surrogates or use egg donors. The only way to check them is through Internet message boards — or by word-of-mouth.

“It is more difficult to open a restaurant with a beer and wine license than it is to open a surrogacy agency,” said Andy Vorzimer, a California reproductive law attorney who specializes in fertility issues. “It is just astonishing.”

The issue of whether surrogacy should be regulated has gained momentum in recent weeks after a class-action lawsuit was filed against a Colleyville woman, Tonya Collins, and her California-based surrogate agency, Surrogenesis.

The suit alleges that $2.5 million paid by prospective parents is missing from an escrow account. Collins, 33, and Surrogenesis, along with the Michael Charles Independent Financial Holdings Group and Jack Kiserow, are the subjects of the lawsuit, which was filed in April in California on behalf of 100 people.

The FBI and Postal Inspection Service are also investigating.

In response to the scandal and others, the American Bar Association’s family law committee met recently and is drafting model legislation to provide the legal framework to regulate surrogacy agencies.

“We got together and said, ‘We have to do something,’ ” said attorney Gregory Stern, legal director of Surrogacy Specialists of America, a Houston-based surrogacy agency. “This really does have to stop.”

Lisa Ikemoto, a professor at the University of California, Davis School of Law who specializes in bioethics, health and reproductive law, said she favors regulation of the industry but is concerned lawmakers could take it too far.

“We should focus on concerns about health and safety and preventing exploitation and protecting the needs and interest of the children and the parties involved,” she said. “My concern is that it will switch and become about social morality.”

A limited statute

No two states handle surrogacy the same.

In New York, surrogacy is illegal. Most states don’t address it at all.

Attorneys said Texas is actually one of the more progressive states because it has a statute governing surrogacy. But the law, they said, is very limited, applying only to married couples using gestational surrogacy — meaning the couple uses in vitro fertilization to create an embryo, which is then transferred to a surrogate woman who agrees to carry the couple’s baby.

In these cases, the contract between the parties is approved by a judge who orders the hospital to put the couple’s name on the birth certificate when the baby is born.

Texas’ statute does not address traditional surrogacy, when a surrogate mother is artificially inseminated with the intended father’s sperm. It also does not address single parents or gay partners using surrogates.

When a baby is born under these circumstances, attorneys said, the party that is not genetically linked to the child usually has to adopt the baby, as if they were a step-parent.

“It is not protected by the law, so there is a major legal risk,” said Dallas attorney Lauren Gaydos Duffer, who specializes in assisted reproductive technology law.

And while Texas outlines the responsibilities of the surrogate and married parents, it says nothing about the operation of surrogate agencies or what criteria should be used to select surrogate mothers and egg donors.

Vorzimer said states should require surrogacy agencies to be licensed, similar to adoption agencies.

He said background checks should be conducted on agency owners and operators, and guidelines should be established for the operation of escrow accounts.

“There also needs to be a state agency to provide oversight and to serve as a repository for perspective parents to contact, akin to the Better Business Bureau,” Vorzimer said. “There is no standardization or uniformity from agency to agency.”

Vorzimer also says states should regulate surrogates and egg donors, requiring them to undergo criminal background checks, drug screens, medical tests and psychological evaluations. They should also be required to have their own independent attorney and medical insurance, he said.

“I do not think any woman on any form of public assistance should be accepted as a surrogate or egg donor,” Vorzimer said. “A woman who has never gone through the process of childbirth also should not be a surrogate.”

Lots on the line

After she gave birth to her surrogate child, Scott said she made it her mission to educate surrogates, prospective parents and egg donors about the process. Scott, who is married with three children, is now co-owner of a Dallas-based surrogate agency, Simple Surrogacy. She is also a vocal proponent for industry regulation.

“There is nobody that stands over us and watches our every move, and there honestly should be,” she said. “If you think about it, the ones on the up and up would be happy to do it. I would love to tell someone, ‘I’m accredited. I’m licensed.’ ”

Scott said her agency conducts criminal background checks and psychological evaluations on all prospective egg donors and surrogates.

They also drug-test the women and draw up contracts allowing intended parents to test their surrogates whenever they want.

“We want to make sure they are responsible and are not going to wind up in jail or hurt the unborn child,” Scott said.

Scott said her agency receives about 50 applications a week from potential surrogates, who can make up to $30,000 for carrying another person’s child.

Scott said only about 10 make it through their initial screening process.

“A couple of years ago, I got a profile for a surrogate in North Carolina, and there was a list of things she had done, from drug possession and on and on,” Scott said. “I turned her down, and I found out that another agency was advertising her. I ended up calling them and saying, ‘Did you do a criminal background check?’ They told me to mind my own business.”

Frisco residents Linda and Danny Smith turned to Scott’s agency last year after several failed attempts at pregnancy. “I waited too long, and we went through several years of fertility treatments and drugs and it never worked,” said Linda Smith, 46.

Smith said they selected their surrogate — as well as an egg donor — after reviewing profiles, pictures, medical history and other information provided by Scott and her agency.

Using in vitro fertilization, Smith said her husband’s sperm fertilized eggs from the egg donor, who wished to remain anonymous. An embryo was then implanted into their surrogate, a woman Smith has gotten to know well.

Smith said she talks to her surrogate often and goes with her to doctor’s appointments. She will be with her in the delivery room. And while things are going well with Smith and her surrogate, Smith said she definitely supports regulation of the industry, where hearts and money are on the line.

“It is a big deal,” said Smith, who estimates they will spend $70,000 to $80,000. “It is very expensive, not only financially but emotionally.

“This is a life we are talking about.”

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